why people fall in love

Why people fall in love?

It is a mystery why we fall in love. It is a mystery how it
happens. It is a mystery when it comes. It is a mystery why
some love grows and it is a mystery why some love fails.
You can analyze this mystery and look for reasons and
causes, but you will never do anymore that take the life out
of the experience. Just as life itself is more than the sum of
the bones and muscles and electrical impulses in the body,
love is more than the sum of the interests and attractions
and commonalities that two people share. And just as life
itself is a gift that comes and goes in its own time, so too, the
coming of love must be taken as an unfathomable gift that
cannot be questioned in its ways.
Sometimes, hopefully at least once in your life - the gift of
love will come to you in full flower. Take hold of it and
celebrate it in all inexpressible beauty. This is the dream we
all share. More often, it will come and take hold of you,
celebrate you for a brief moment, then move on.
When this happen to young people, they too often try to
grasp the love and hold it to them, refusing to see that it is a
gift that just as freely, moves away. When they fall out of
love, or the person they love feels the spirit of love leaving,
they try desperately to reclaim the love that is lost rather
than accepting the gift for what it was, then moving on.
They want answers where there are no answers. They
want to know what is wrong in them that makes the other
person no longer love them, or try to get their love to change,
thinking that if some small things were different, love would
bloom again. They blame their circumstances and say that if
they go far away and start a new life, their love will grow.
They try anything to give meaning to what has happened. But
there is no meaning beyond the love itself, and until they
accept its own mysterious ways, they live in a sea of misery.
You need to know this about love, and accept it. You need to
treat what it brings you with kindness. If you find yourself in
love with someone who does not love you, be gentle with
yourself. There is nothing wrong with you. Love just didn't
choose to rest in the other person's heart.
If you find yourself someone in love with you but you don't
love him back, feel honored that love came and called at your
door, but gently refuse the gift you cannot return. Do not
take advantage; do not cause pain. How you deal with love
is how you deal with yourself. All our hearts feel the same
pains and joys, even if our lives and ways are different.
If you fall in love with another, and he falls in love with you,
and then love chooses to leave, do not try to reclaim it nor to
assess blame. Let it go. There is a reason and there is a
meaning. You will know in time.
Remember that you don't choose love. Love chooses you. All
you can really do is accept it for all its mystery when it
comes into your life. Feel the way it fills you to overflowing,
then reach out and give it away. Give it back to the person
who brought it alive in you. Give it to others who deem it
poor in spirit. Give it to the world around you in any way you can.
There is where many lovers go wrong. Having been so long
without love, they understand love only as a need. They see
their hearts as empty places that will be filled by love, and
they begin to look at love as something that flows to them
rather than from them.
The first blush of new love is filled to overflowing, but as
their love cools, they revert to seeing their love as a need.
They cease to be someone who generates love and instead
become someone who seeks love. They forget that the
secret of love is that it is a gift, and that it can be made to
grow only by giving it away.
Remember this and keep it to your heart. Love has its time, its
own season, its own reason for coming and going. You
cannot bribe it or coerce it, or reason it into staying. You can
only embrace it when it arrives and give it away when it
comes to you. But if it chooses to leave from your heart or
from the heart of your lover, there is nothing you can do and
there is nothing you should do. Love always has been and
always will be a mystery. BE GLAD THAT IT CAME TO LIVE
FOR A MOMENT IN YOUR LIFE.

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What is Love !

From where does love come ? How can we know if we are in love ? Can we love describe love in words ? Can love be defined ? Is Love just an chemical Emotion ?

Is love from the heart or from the mind ?

What is Love After All ?

Love is like a melody That's sweetly played in tune

Love is like a red, red rose That's newly sprung in June

Love is like a box of chocolates. You don't know how good it is till it is gone

Love is like a rosebud, it can blossom full, or it can die softly

Love is like an hourglass with the heart filling up as the brain empties.

Love is like standing in wet cement. The longer you stay, the harder it is to leave. And you can never go without leaving your shoes behind

Love is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must forget the rules and play from your heart.

Love is like quicksilver in the hand. Leave the fingers open and it stays. Clutch it and it darts away

Love is like a tree, the roots of which grow deeper every day

Love is like a rose: when you have it in your grasp, you have to bare the thorns.

Love is like a balloon. It come with the wind and gone with the wind.

Love is like a butterfly. If you hold it too tight, it will die; if you hold it too loose it will fly away

Love is like ghosts, which everyone talks about but few have seen

Love is like rain, you never know how hard it's going to hit or how long it will last

Love is like water...you can drink it, swim in it, drown in it, but you can't live without it

Love is like an hourglass, with the heart filling up as the brain empties

Love is like a sweet, gentle breeze caressing the very essence of the soul

Love is when you when you can't stop thinking about her.

Love is when you love him more then you need him

Love is when you love without measure

Love is when the heart sees what the eyes can't

Love is when your heart beats a trillion times a minute when ever you are with that person

Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs

Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it every day.

Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day

Love is when you lift her in your arms and carry her to bed.

Love is when you take away the feeling, the passion, the romance -and you find out you still care for that person.

Love is when all you care about is that one person no one could hurt you more and yet no one can make you happier

Love is when they gaze into your eyes and it warms your heart

Love is when you believe that he can never make a mistake

Love is when you spend all Sunday morning in bed together.

Love is when you don't have to be with another person to touch them

Love is when you don't want to sleep, because reality is better than a dream

Love is when he means the world to you

Love is when u cant pay attention in class cause your forever writing your first name with his last

We might not be able to explain that What is Love

but one thing is for sure : Love is all you need

 


I MISS YOU!!!
We have dedicated this section about feelings related to missing Someone special You are more than just welcome to share with us a Poem ,some lines or Quotes related to missing someone. 




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Its not that I miss you I just miss the feeling of being loved and knowing that no matter what someone is there for me that I can talk to about anything, well all I miss is being loved

I miss you when something really good happens, because you are the one I want to share it with. I miss you when something is troubling me, because you are the one who understands me so well. I miss you when I laugh and cry because i know that you are the one that makes my laughter grow and my tears disappear. I miss you all the time, but I miss you most when i lay awake at night and think of all the wonderful times we spent with each other; for those were some of the best times of my life .

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I don't write to tell you that I love you, nor to ask you for explanations that now are not on time. I just write you to express my feelings in this short paragraph. I want to tell you that I really loved you as I demonstrated you. I don't know what happened. But It is too late. I hope you can find your love. Good Bye my dear love



I tried to convince myself I didn't want you anymore.
I just can't let go.
I don't want to see you move on, but I'm not doing much about it either.
You're two different people and I wish it would stop, because I'm living to die and dieing to live, but it doesnt mean a thing to me, until I have you. I felt so good when I was with you, you made me feel like the world; to hear i was your favorite and the best you ever had. You were not ashamed and would hold my hand anywhere. We'd talk on the phone for hours, and everytime we kissed it felt like i was dreaming. Love felt like heaven when I was with you; and now that you're gone im hurting like hell. I miss you so much, and I wish you were here, but I made the wrong choice and its too late, too many mistakes had been made and i lost you, forever -- but you didnt loose my love because i loved you ever since the day i met you. and ill never forget you, because to me, you are the WORLD


When you have come to realize that you miss me.....i wont be missing you.



I don't know if i miss YOU or if i just miss the feeling of knowing someone loves me as much or possibly more than i love them. and having the feeling when the one i love defends me and is always there for me when i need them... i dont think you realize how much i miss being able to just go to you, being able to tell you anything and you actually understanding or trying to as much as you can.. i miss that little feeling i got when i was with you!!

I miss u when the sun goes down, I miss u txtin me when I'm tryin to sleep, I miss u goin to my wrk, I miss u touching me an makin me smile! I miss u so much it hurts an everyday my heart breaks all over again cause I know u are with her! Yet I still miss you...



Before I met you I had no clue what love was all I cared about was myself. Then we found each other and I truly found out what love was. Food lost its flavor, the whole world became hazy to where I don't even remember much of what happened. The only thing that mattered was you and being able to put my arms around you. We didn't even need to say anything, just stand next to each other and share our body heat. My true weakness was in her smile. Her face made me realize that everything was ok in the world and I honestly thought that this had to be heaven. Then when she left me it was honestly the worst feeling in the world. I felt like dieing, no, worse, I felt like dieing 1000000 times or ripping my heart out of my chest hoping and praying that if I did that I wouldn't hurt so much. Loosing a lover is the worst feeling in the world and it does the worst things to you. Ever since then I have never really expressed my self fully in fear that I would feel that kind of pain again



Everyday i wake up knowing that ur not right next to me in bed-everyday i hope for u to come back-everyday i think about the time we first kissed-the times we spent together-staying up at-wondering wat ur doing-waiting for ur calls-still love growing for u-thinking of the day when u went away-thinking of you every second-just missing you everyday.



Everyday i think of you.
Everyday you cross my mind.
Everyday i see something that reminds me of you.
Everyday im missing you.
Everyday i wish you were mine.
Everyday i wonder what could of been.
Everyday i think of why you did this.
& everyday im getting stronger.
Everyday im moving on.
But everyday ill always miss you.



missing someone isn't about how long is been since you've seen each other or the amount to time since you've talked. Its about that very moment when your doing something and you wish they were right there with you every time



Honestly, I dont even know wat really happened. When i think abt it, all i remember is that i tried and i tried really hard. But u din seem happy anymore no matter how hard i tried. So i called it quits. All i have ever wanted is ur mesmerizing smile lighting up my life. And i was just not able to feel that. Sorry, if ever i have hurt you. But the only thing that i wish for now is ur happiness. If ever you realize that ur happiness is with me then ur always welcome. I am and i will always be here for u. But even if u happen to find it somewhere else, rest assured I'll be the happiest for u. Love you!!!!!!!.

Funny Love Quotes!!!!

The sincerest love is the love of food.

Bernard Shaw .

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Marrying for love may be a bit risky, but it is so honest that God can't help but smile on it.

Josh Billings

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When a man opens the door of his car for his wife, you can be sure of one thing: either the car is new or the wife is.

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Love may be blind but marriage is a real eye-opener! Unknown

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The great question... which I have not been able to

answer... is, "What ..does a woman want?''

-- Freud

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Then there was a man who said, "I never knew what real happiness was until I got married; by then it was too late."

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I recently read that love is entirely a matter of chemistry. That must be why my wife treats me like toxic waste.

David Bissonette

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When a woman steals your husband, there is no better revenge than to let her keep him

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Do not marry a man to reform him. That is what reform schools are for."

Mae West

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Love is temporary insanity curable by marriage.

Ambrose Bierce

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Behind every successful man stands a surprised mother-in-law

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Man is better off than woman; he marries later and dies sooner

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Marriage is the triumph of imagination over intelligence. Second marriage is the triumph of hope over experience.

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Marriage is the process of finding out what kind of person your spouse would have really preferred

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Bachelors should be heavily taxed. It is not fair that some men should be happier than others.

-Oscar Wilde

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A man is incomplete until he is married. After that, he is finished.—

Zsa Zsa Gabor

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My wife and I were happy for 20 years - then we met.

-Rodney Dangerfield

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The most happy marriage I can picture would be the union of a deaf man to a blind woman.

Coleridge

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One good husband is worth two good wives; for the scarcer things are, the more they are valued.

Benjamin Franklin

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.The secret of a happy marriage remains a secret.

-Henry Youngman

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Whatever you may look like, marry a man your own age - as your beauty fades, so will his eyesight.

Phyllis Diller

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If husbands could realize what large returns of profit may be gotten out of a wife by a small word of praise paid over the counter when the market is just right, they would bring matters around the way they wish them much oftener than they usually do.

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If love is the answer, could you rephrase the question?

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Arguments are unsafe with wives, because they examine them; but they do not examine compliments. One can pass upon a wife a compliment that is three-fourths base metal; she will not even bite it to see if it is good; all she notices is the size of it, not the quality.

Hellfire Hotchkiss

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All tragedies are finished by a death, all comedies by a marriage.

Lord Byron

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"My wife has a slight impediment in her speech. Every now and then she stops to breathe."

Jimmy Durante.

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Men marry women with the hope they will never change. Women marry men with the hope they will change. Invariably they are both disappointed.

-- Albert Einstein - Funny Love Quotes

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Marriage is a three ring circus: engagement ring, wedding ring, and suffering.

Anonymous

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Many a man owes his success to his first wife and his second wife to his success.

-- Jim Backus

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Do you know what it means to come home at night to a woman who'll give you a little love, a little affection, a little tenderness? It means you're in the wrong house, that's what it means."

George Burns.

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Happiness is having a large, loving, caring, close knit family in another city."

George Burns.

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I've had bad luck with both my wives. The first one left me and the second one didn't."

Patrick Murray.

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In my house I'm the boss, my wife is just the decision maker."

Woody Allen.

The most effective way to remember your wife's birthday

is to forget it once

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Yawn - Nature's way of letting married men open their mouths

Anon

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I married Miss Right. I just didn't know her first name was Always.

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I asked my wife where she wanted to go for our anniversary. "Somewhere I haven't been in a long time!" she said.

So I suggested the kitchen.

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Marriage is not a word; it is a sentence

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A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong.

Milton Berle

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A wife is someone who'll stand by you through all the trouble you wouldn't have had if you'd stayed single.

unknown

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I think, therefore I'm single.

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